

We really have no idea how powerful we are. We tend to see ourselves as tiny individuals in an enormous world, doing our best to sway the tides that come between us and our fulfillment. But there is a truth that can change this perception, destroy the feeling of victimhood and bring true freedom:
What you focus on grows.
Our focus creates our reality. If we are focused on what is wrong in our lives and our worlds, what are we going to see? What’s wrong. But if we are focused on the things we love, the things that inspire us and fill us with joy, we start to see the beauty we were so blind to before. You can transform your experience of life in an instant, just by choosing to focus inwards. Just by bringing your attention deep into yourself, instead of getting caught up in the dramas and worries of the world around, you can break lifelong patterns of discontent and preoccupation.
So if it’s so simple, why don’t we do it? I know why: because we don’t want to. We don’t want to be happy: we’d prefer to fight for what we think should be fixed. We don’t want to surrender: we want to win. We don’t want to embrace our reality: we want to chase our ideas of how things should be, instead of accepting them as they are. Why? because we are convinced we know best how our lives should be. The truth is, our idea of the perfect world has been forged by the opinions of so many, by the fears and insecurities caused by so many life experiences, that it is not really our idea at all.
Children don’t do this. (from Jody. This reminds me of my Susan Boyle song post) They embrace what they have without question. When I lived on the Colombian coast, the local boys would play football barefoot with coconuts. They weren’t moping around thinking, If only I had some Nike runners! then I could play much better. If only we had a real ball instead of this coconut! They don’t think like that: they are having so much fun as it is, enjoying what they have.
I am not denying the importance of working towards a better world. I admire any activity that helps unite humanity and improve the quality of life on this planet. But if we are focused on what’s wrong, even with the intention of making it right, we are perpetuating discontent and inconformity. Let’s focus on what we have achieved, on the wonderful, incredible world we live in and the passionate and inspired individuals who are giving their best to humanity every day. Let’s focus on what we can give: on the ways we can lead more joyful, fulfilling lives. Let’s focus on being fully present, on knowing ourselves, accepting ourselves, embracing ourselves. Then naturally we will share that love with those around us.
What are you focused on right now? On the frustrations of the past, or the worries of the future? Why don’t you try, just for today, to focus on enjoying each moment? On giving the best you can in each situation that is presented to you?
Give it a try. Discover the power of focus, and in doing so, take responsibility for your own happiness.
I can't leave today without some healthcare reform. This past Wednesday, there was a free clinic in Hartford Connecticut. This state's Senate & House passed Universal Healthcare Reform for all BUT THE REPUBLICAN GOVERNOR VETOED IT! Along with that, Joe Lieberman from this state fights healthcare reform in Washington even though he spoke out for it just a few years ago. Makes you wonder since his wife is tied to the lobbyists for the insurance industry in that state AND Lieberman is tied to their money as well. Watch this very telling video from this free clinic. It says so much!!!



Get through the dark winter days with 5 tips to beat the winter blues:
A longer post to read when you have time from Dr. OZ: 5 Pains that Point to Cancer
Sort & sweet today although I hope info that may be of help to you. Has anyone tried the winter blues suggestions? How about the pain post from Dr. Oz. Anyone heed one of those pains & got to a problem before it got worse?
Not sure if the cookie info is a help or hinder! ![]()
PS: I have a reader that says she is NOT able to leave comments on my blog. She is getting a closed comments when she tries to comment. Is anyone else having this problem? Thx!!!



I think many of us may have had some tough childhood times if we were overweight or teased or many of the other things that happen when we are young.
My great online friend Dr. J over at CalorieLab sent this article to me cause he knows I live by my weight training AND I am an old broad! 
I have come to the frightening conclusion that I am the decisive element. It is my personal approach that creates the climate. It is my daily mood that makes the weather.
I possess tremendous power to make life miserable or joyous. I can be a tool of torture or an instrument of inspiration, I can humiliate or humor, hurt or heal.
In all situations, it is my response that decides whether a crisis is escalated or de-escalated, and a person is humanized or de-humanized.
If we treat people as they are, we make them worse. If we treat people as they ought to be, we help them become what they are capable of becoming.
~ Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
A special thank you to Dr. Holly Latty-Mann for sharing this quote. (from Lance's blog & thought I should put that on here too)
It would seem that making great toast would be a piece of cake for today's toasters. After all, this simple kitchen appliance was invented long ago.
When we teamed up with Consumer Reports over 2,000 slices of bread were toasted and we found some real losers while finding some best buys too.
Drop the bread in, push the lever down, and up pops the toast. This has been happening since the 1920s.
"You'd think after 80 years, consumers could expect to get perfectly browned toast every time they use a toaster," said Bob Markovich of Consumer Reports.
But no, Consumer Reports tested 34 toasters assessing the evenness of browning against a color chart. While none delivered perfection, many are getting pretty close. Some even offer features like a digital countdown to let you know when your toast will be ready.
"Manufacturers are fighting for your appliance dollars and your counter space, so they're pretty busy developing features to get you to open your wallet," said Markovich.
But consumer Reports testers found some features come at the expense of others. For example, the Delonghi dtt312, for $130 has a lift-out grid for warming sandwiches like frozen paninis. Sounds appetizing, but unfortunately this toaster is only mediocre at its main job, which is toasting evenly.
For much less, Haier's $30 toaster did a better job toasting. It is one of five toasters Consumer Reports named a best buy. And another, the Proctor Silex Cool Touch model 22203, costs just $15. Both do a good job toasting for very little dough.
In order to help you figure out how to get the best toast, Consumer Reports toasted nearly 2,000 slices of bread in its tests. I guess no one can accuse them of "loafing around" on the job.